Tuesday, February 9, 2016

A Lenten Challenge (StVdP)

A Lenten Challenge
Reflection for St. Vincent de Paul Meeting, February 8, 2016  
Dcn. Bob Bonomi 

Lent is upon us, and the first thing we usually associate with Lent is fasting.  As a kid, I remember having to “give up” something for Lent, and it usually was candy.  Once I became a responsible adult (more-or-less) , I added alcohol and soft drinks to the list.  Of course, there’s always the ban on meat on Fridays, but fish sticks and macaroni and cheese were quickly replaced with salmon or other fancy fish meals.  The toughest fasting came when I began to give up television.

But as tough as giving up these things might be (depending on how old I was) I always knew that once Easter came I could return to the things I loved most. 

The last several years, however, the Church has emphasized a more comprehensive approach, focusing on all three three pillars of Lent: prayer, fasting and almsgiving. 

First, prayer.  During Lent one is encouraged to spend time in prayer, meditation and reflection.  To aid in these endeavors, parishes often offer Lenten missions, provide Lenten prayer books, or some other type of opportunity for spiritual growth.  You might find presentations on the Stations of the Cross and opportunities for Eucharistic Adoration.  All are meant to help you grow spiritually.

Second, fasting.  Fasting was the primary focus of Lent for many centuries, based upon Jesus in the desert.  Often it became an excuse to lose weight or to try and break a bad habit, but more and more it has come to help us identify with those who do not have the luxuries of life that we do, and serve as a reminder to us to think of God and His Son’s sacrifices for us.

Finally, Almsgiving.  This is more than just putting money into the Rice Bowl for Catholic Relief Services, although that is indeed a worthy cause.  But in addition to money, almsgiving includes the participation in charitable acts, especially addressing those needs defined in the Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy.  It is as important to give of ourselves as it is to give of our resources.  As Vincentians, you are intimately familiar with the first four of the Corporal Works: Feed the Hungry, Give Drink to the Thirsty, Clothe the Naked, Shelter the Homeless. But almsgiving includes the other works as well.

Although we often look at these three pillars as being independent of each other, for this Lent I’m going to suggest a change in emphasis in your approach to all three, combining them into a personal program for a lasting change in your life.   

First, instead of fasting from food or drink, I would suggest that you fast from something related to the time you spend somewhere.  It may be from television or the computer, or it may be from one of your other favorite activities. But rather than fasting 100% of your time from that activity, pick a specific time every day and give up whatever it is that you might be doing at that time.  One day it might be TV, the next day it might be gardening – or it might be sleep.  But it should be for at least an hour every day.  

Then, spend that time in prayer.  You might consider spending that time every day in front of the Blessed Sacrament or in front of a home shrine or even a religious statue or icon.  As part of your prayers, use that time to pray that God reveal to you His special mission for you.  As Vincentians, you already have a mission, but if you are not feeling joy in your calling, ask God to show you why.  You might find there is something more you can or should do.

Finally, once you begin to feel a deeper sense of calling, then as part of your almsgiving, spend your resources in pursuing that call.  It might require attending a class, or going somewhere to see something being done, or investing in reading materials – or it may be in giving directly to assist someone else to do it.

Use your Lent in discovery, not in just doing.  Then, when Lent has ended and the Easter Season of new life begins, BEGIN.  Begin to implement what you discovered about God's call to you during Lent.  Let it be the start of something new for you.  Let it be the start of something great.

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